"The goal of a healthy relationship is for each individual to remain intact as two seprate beings, while a third entity -- the relationship -- is created." Beverly Engel
Do you tend to fall in love quickly and intensely?
Do you neglect your friends to be with your lover?
Do your drop your own interests and take on the interests of your lover in order to spend more time with him?
Do you refrain from expressing your own thoughts, feelings, beliefs, and/or opinions?
Do you refrain from pursuing personal, professional, spiritual goals because it may affect the relationship in some way?
Have you ever looked in the mirror and wondered, "Where did I go?
Well, you are not alown.
Even this therapist needed a therapist to learn how to make changes, and improve her self esteem in order to find her own voice.
